I just wanna rant for a minute because I'm pissed off and honestly hurt. So my sister in law and I…
I just wanna rant for a minute because I'm pissed off and honestly hurt. So my sister in law and I used to be best friends. Our boyfriends are twins. We went to high school together. Everything. We were best friends up until we both got pregnant. She started making questionable decisions (smoking, drinking, ODing on pills) and because of it, our boyfriend's family doesn't like her. However, they love me. Or at least they seem to. So I think she's a little jealous. She started a ton of drama, uninvited my boyfriend and I from their baby shower, blah blah blah. We had supposedly dropped everything right before her daughter was born so that we could all get along and our kids could grow up together. I've been as nice as I could possibly be to her; I've bought her daughter stuff, I've checked up on her to see how she was doing, I've been nice. I've been friendly. I treat her like I treat everyone else.
Well my boyfriend and I were going over to their house today and before we left his brother texted him saying that I'm no longer invited over there, that I've been "saying things on Twitter that upset Jessica" (I've said nothing), and that I've been "creating tension".
I don't understand. Like part of me wants to punch something but mostly I just wanna cry. I don't know what else I could possibly do. I went ahead and just deleted all my social media because apparently my very existence just steps on her fucking toes and I'm tired of the drama. It's like it's constant. I have been nice to her! What else am I supposed to do, seriously? I literally feel like I'm being bullied here. Like I'm being singled out and just harrassed over and over simply because I'm me. I'm at a loss. So he went inside when we went over there and I just sat in the car.
I hate feeling like I'm being excluded when I don't know what in the hell I'm doing wrong. Hopefully she doesn't get me uninvited to my own baby shower next week. 😒
Bianca·
Мама двоих (9 лет, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
First...She is a grown ass women and sweetie do not stress yourself out kissing her miserable jealous ass. Just move on and focus on your family. It is not your job to try to keep the peace with her. Clearly she is taking your kindness for weakness.
Stacy·
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Definitely get your social media back if you want it. That's your life, not hers. She's the one that made questionable decisions and you still made her feel included. If I had to guess she feels guilty and sees that you're doing good so she is doing everything she can to avoid facing the truth. You did what you could so don't let it upset you too much!
rocd·
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Your SO shouldn't have left you in the car while he went inside. I feel like that's very disrespectful of him. Get your social media back. You can't aim to please everyone. She will she what she has done and will regret it.
rocd·
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See*
sally·
Don't stress yourself out over immature people hun. Shes the one in the wrong and the one causing the tension. Like everyone said get your social media back.No one should make anyone feel bullied especially someone who is pretty much family. Hopefully she'll chill out and stop being so catty and annoying. keep strong girl x
kyla·
Мама сына (5 лет)
just delete her from your bubble you don't need that craziness he deff shouldn't have left you in the car he should've stood up for you and deff not gone in.. I wouldn't change who you are for her she just wants a pitty party an the attention ..
emily·
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Sounds like she is addicted to attention and is just starting drama! I'm sorry. That is so annoying, she doesn't deserve to have you in her life anyways if she wants to act childish like that.
emily·
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It makes me so sad that you just sat in the car. In my opinion your boyfriend should have stood up for you! I personally don't think you seem like someone that would write subtweets on social media specifically to create tension. Now obviously I don't know you personally but I follow you on here and on Twitter and you seem like a really sweet person. Her doing drugs and such while pregnant sounds like her way of getting the attention away from you and back on her. She is very immature.
Deleted user·
Your bf should have stood up for you and not have went. Especially not go and have you sit in the car. That wasn't right of him..