So it's my 4 year anniversary of marriage next week. My honey wants to take me to Monterey and I want to go here's the thing... we are saving to get an apartment (we live with my parents. an already have a 3 year old) I just don't know if we should spend some of the savings we have towards moving out or not. ( We haven't been on a date since our first baby. I got pregnant a month after we got married) My question is what would you do?