So check it ladies my baby father daughter is pregnant with twins she does not live where we live…
So check it ladies my baby father daughter is pregnant with twins she does not live where we live she lives down south and being that this will be her first time giving birth she wants him there so they are going to take the babies out around September right around the time I'm due. is it selfish that I want him here with me when we have our baby together or should he go be with his daughter because I'm really confused about how to think about the situation. I mean I have a support system I have my mom, family and I have friends that could be there for me I'm not sure if she has all this so I need you ladies opinions...
Kamara·
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that's tough. you arent selfish for wanting him there but that's his daughter and she wants her father to be there. can't he's becoming a dad and a.grandpa all.at once lol...I say let him go. he'll have plenty of time to bond with his baby. but he may not get to see his grandkids as much as he would like. she may just feel.afraid and want her dad there. its good that they even have a relationship
shareka·
@averysmom8_3_16, I know it's good and he's crazy about his kids, she's grown and her children father is in the picture....I have a father too and would would love for him to be with me as well but he lives down south as well. ....lol how funny is that...
Taylor·
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I believe 100% he should be there with you for the birth of his child. That's a huge moment that he can never get back. I'm sure he was there for the birth of his daughter. It creates that initial bond. His daughter will be well taken care of by the hospital staff, that's their job and he can always go visit her once your baby is born.
Taylor·
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And I hate to say this and I pray it doesn't happen, but he wouldn't be able to forgive himself if something went wrong and he wasn't even there..
shareka·
right in both situation the unexpected can happen...my ob said he could come late August, and bd bday on the 25th that would be a good bday gift and he can still be there for his daughter....I wouldn't mind but I want to share that moment with him and want him to be there for his daughter she's still a daddy little girl....ugh I just hope my Lil man comes first
shareka·
@taylorrleee1,
Desaray·
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If she is going to have her children's father there I feel you deserve the same.
shareka·
@desi720, exactly....from what I hear sounds like he a good guy and going to be there