Did you time or schedule feedings for your LO's or did you wait for them to let you know when they were hungry? Did you try to put them on a sleep schedule?
Right now I'm operating on the "you let me know what you need" policy and it works pretty well, but I was curious how it worked for you other moms.
I planned in the beginning because I was crazy. Then I did the "you let me know what you need" and it was so much better
I planted the first month because they didn't wake up at night, but now I dont and they are fine.
I'm an on demand mom.. It's worked with my son and now with my daughter! When my started was sleeping through the night I put him on a bedtime and a dinner schedule.. Let him wake up for breakfast whenever he decided to.. Nap time was always after lunch!