he goes crazy excessive drinking ignores kids while I'm at work and has been pushing the idea of a vasectomy as well as blames me for having a second kid and acts like he doesn't want her. he has also been saying things in a way that makes me cry.

why do you say he has it?

where do we turn to when it's the husband and not the mother? I didn't think it was going to happen after the second birth.

It's pppd paternal post part depression