sarahmariemommy2be
Sarah
I feel so defeated.. She hasnt even been born for 48 hours and tonight in this hospital we used formula. Im an emotional wreck because I feel like I failed her.. No ones understanding why I'm crying. Its not even that I dont have milk its because the pain :'( and I know i can work through it but my "boyfriend" says get over it.. I just cant! I want her strictly on breast.. I still only want her on breast.. But he puts the bottle in her mouth anyway... And im laying here crying my eyes out and he doesnt care he doesnt get it! Im growing a serious hatred for him ever since she was born. Everything is pissing me off I cant handle this :'(
20.05.2016
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madibug96
You are always right, has he forgotten that you are a woman? damn, men are really pissing me off tonight lol. if he wants back in the room I'd tell him that he's gonna support what you wanna do without question or he's gonna get smacked. if my husband ever gave our son a bottle and formula without even barely letting me try all hell would break loose. js.
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sarahmariemommy2be
@madibug96, yeah he doesnt stand by me he tells me to shut up and to get over myself and that im "always right" so i dont need him and then he walks out...
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madibug96
babies do not need to be fed immediately. their bodies are made to be fine for a couple days until your milk comes in so I assume it would be the same if you just need time to get the correct latch and get past the pain. that's really rude of him and I would make him leave. I've made it clear to my husband of everything I want to do and he has already promised to stand by me. you are the mother, you get to decide what to do. kick his ass out.
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olson0305
It's ok mama, don't feel defeated!! You can do it!! I wish someone would have been honest with me and told me that breastfeeding comes with a million possible problems/complications but they iron themselves out if you keep at it! I had pain, infections, mastitis, every hardship imaginable...but I stuck it out and did my research...ended up breastfeeding my first 2 until their 3rd birthdays. It's worth it!
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m00my2five
Maybe you can request a lactation person to come talk to both of you. maybe she has good ways to communicate to your SO why it's so important to you. You have a lot going on and it would take stress off of you if someone was the middle man explaining how you feel. @sarahmariemommy2be
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sarahmariemommy2be
Can someone message me please :'( im having a break down and he just walked out again I cant handle this
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kmunoz
This was 100% me! I was crying so much because I felt like the worst mother in the world. (my baby wouldn't latch though) It gets better! Don't be so hard on yourself.
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rylansmomma
They gave Rylan formula in the hospital! Now we're almost 3 months strong exclusive breastfeeding!(:
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mrswalker7
you can try again hun you're supposed to do it a certain way. that it wont hurt you adk your nurse to show you i had to get mine to show me with my son
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brynden.nicholle.0716
Usually if there's a lot of pain, the baby isn't latching correctly. The hospital should have a lactation specialist you can talk to.
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ladyluck1994
That really sucks he's not being supportive of what you want. Especially since you just had your baby and your hormones and emotions are everywhere. Have you tried using a nipple shield? I had to use those with my daughter because she wasn't latching properly and it caused my nipples to chafe. But I refused to bottle feed too. I told the hospital if I couldn't get her to latch I wanted to pump because I didn't want her on formula
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