I guess I'll say my two cents. This place of course is a safe place. I have seen multiple posts about a girl(if you are…
I guess I'll say my two cents. This place of course is a safe place. I have seen multiple posts about a girl(if you are her I'm sorry for your lost). Listen, some things trigger horrible things for people. Some things are better left to yourself. Not saying you cannot share your feelings, but a picture of a dead baby(that's what it is to most) is very hard for MOST people to see. It doesn't mean they do not support you. Does not mean you have no right to share your story. You could say I have the picture in the comments to warn people. Those types of photos are considered triggers or graphic. I do not think getting mad at others for complaining is nice either. Literally, that is very hard to see. Talk it out but those photos aren't easy to swallow. Rest in peace little one and hugs to the girl. Truly know that people care but cannot see those things.
missing369user·
Мама дочки-младенца
I kinda get what you're saying but at the same time women who it'd be a "trigger" to- women who have lost babies- totally understand the need to have an outlet. I've lost a baby and when I was pregnant my friend showed me pictures of her still born and yeah maybe it kinda scared me about my pregnancy but instead of being selfish and complaining I looked and told her how beautiful her baby was and comforted her. Losing a baby is the hardest thing ever. So sorry if people feel "uncomfortable" by someone else's loss but that momma needs to have an outlet and she probably thought this would be a good place considering we are all moms here. I feel awful for her.
Faith·
I feel awful for her as well. I didn't see the picture but I can only imagine how hard it is to lose a baby and then try to seek comfort and understand and women who are suppose to support you report it like its something wrong. So sad for her
Faith·
@mamesey,
Lexi Muniz 💛·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (30 нед.)
Not sure if this was about me because people like to throw subliminal messages.. But it was me and MULTIPLE woman who it affected because we were ALL POSTING the same post to honor our babies who we lost. This is a app for MOTHERS.. And if the MOTHERS feel uncomfortable well than that's a damn shame. Nobody is asking for a pitty party... All we were doing was posting our little ones because today is THEIR day... Also, miscarriages is REALITY... Woman need to grow up..
Thank you.
Ashley😘·
@lexirosex3, "Claps" Thankyou!
Kristina·
Мама сына-младенца
I didn't see it or know who it was. I just stating a perspective. For the record, I have been on this app for a long time and most do not post things like that because of the reasons listed. It's the of the matter that you can express your feelings without the photo. If this wasn't an issue, preggie would have let it stay. But most people have a hard time with a photo of the like. Taking personally only hurts yourself. Many are grown ups. There many things grown ups don't want to see. We talk about miscarriages all the time in here. And most put a tigger warning because it is considerate. This is an outlet. No one said it wasn't. No one is attacking anyone. No needs to put anyone down. It is simply, most cannot stomach it. Plain and simple. It doesn't take away the fact you lost a child. That is horrible. It is nothing to do with that. There is ALWAYS a line with apps like this. And they choose to make a photo of a child passing a line to not cross. I'm sorry. We are all hear to talk! @mamesey @mommy_faith @lexirosex3 @ashley_abby20