When you tell our grandfather your pregnant again and he tells you it's your fault your sons father…

My son is everything to me and made my life worth living! This second baby is just going to make my life twice as blessed and twice as happy.

Plus I'm going to college so I don't see how I'm going no where

I'm sorry , you had to hear that especially from a family member and obv. It's not true . You being there for your kids is awesome u are a good mom some people don't get it yes u have kids just means u have to work extra harder than others not that you are a failure . Makes me sad he had a reaponse like that . Well we all know we can't make everyone happy even the ones we are close to such as family .

It just hurt. I wanted to cry and I should of kept my mouth shut and left. But ofcourse I had to try to defend myself. Gah

Thank you @cubanese @babyboy449

Well of course u naturally wanted to defend yourself any person would of ... If he really thinks u weren't going to defend yourself then he's crazy . Don't let what he said , make u stop working hard for them babies ... Which I know it won't if anything it should make u work harder . I would of wanted to cry too :(

Wow, I hope you don't take that to heart, how mean

Everyone around me has been saying these thing since I was little and it's gotten worse when I was pregnant with my son. I proved them wrong before and I'm going to keep doing so. I was just shocked of who it came from.

My childern are everything. I will always take car word them and get them everything they need. I always go. I'm a good mom I don't care what anyone says. They can leave they know where the door is. I'm not forcing them to stay like I didn't force my sons father to be his dad.