my mother in law makes shit so difficult for me 😒😒 yesterday was my brothers graduation(high school…
my mother in law makes shit so difficult for me 😒😒 yesterday was my brothers graduation(high school graduation) and yesterday i tried putting my son down for a nap early so i can take him with me but he didnt even take a nap so i told my boyfriend i cant take him with me because he will be very cranky and i wont be home until 12am and my mother in law got mad i didnt take him!! she gave me a mean look and told me "well he wants to go too" and i told her i know but he cant come if he hasnt tooken a nap or else he will be cranky before the graduation even starts. when i went to the graduation it was CROWDED and i was standing for 2 1\2 hours waiting to be seated so im glad i didnt take my son with me but my boyfriends mom gets mad over everything -_- and then she calls me around 11pm and asked me how much more longer am i gonna be out and i told her ill be there when im done 😒 my son was asleep so idk why shes even bothering me.. it irritates me
Maria·
Мама двоих (9 лет, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
ugh hate that when ppl are salty over petty stuff SMH thank God my MIL is always wanting to watch my Lil ones even tho they aren't her biological grandkids and of course they're older..hope she stops being this way for u asap@mommy_of_two1994
Stephanie·
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего
You are lucky you have someone to watch him. My parents and in-laws will watch my kids once a week during the day only if I am working. It may not seem like it but you are extremely lucky she keeps him, my mom tells me that I had then so I don't get to take breaks from motherhood.
Stephanie·
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего
I would have had to take them or not gone at all
Brittany Gonzales·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (32 нед.)
@mjmommy, i know! shes bewn acting salty asf and its annoying. she acts out on the worse times when i cant take my son with me to certain places and gets a fit about it when she needs to understand. i cant wait until i get my own place so i can move out, i really dont like living with her the way she acts 😒 she needs to remember i am not her daughter so she needs to stop trying to be like shes my mother.
Brittany Gonzales·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (32 нед.)
@mybabyloves, yeah i know. i have my son all the time and my boyfriends mom acts like she watches my son 24/7 his dad watches him when i am somewhere else. but dang, my mom isnt like that but i have her have my son for 1 night (grandma & baby night together) and i actually think my mother in law is jealous or acts like shes the boss. she knows not to push my buttons lol she learned the 1st time. my son is my responsibility and i take care of him but she makes me feel like im a terrible mom 😩😩
Stephanie·
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего
I know I wasn't trying to give you a hard time, I was just saying that I wish somebody would watch my kids just once so I could go do something. the best thing for you is to move out get your own place
Stephanie·
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего
because then she would be the one asking to see your kids instead of you asking her to watch them
Brittany Gonzales·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (32 нед.)
@mybabyloves, yeah i know! us mommys deserve to have a break once in awhile we deserve it were with our kids all the time dealing with tantrums and it drives us nuts lol and i know thats how i liked it before when i had my place a year ago. she would always ask when she can have my son for the weekend. but i already laid down rules once my daughter is here she cant spend the night until shes at least 9 months old where she is able to crawl. i know my boyfriends mom may get mad but oh well i got 2 kids i gotta take care of.
Stephanie·
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего
you are the mom and whatever rules you make have to be followed