***Emotiomal Semi-Rant *** So I get in my feelings when I see everyone talking about how horrible…
***Emotiomal Semi-Rant *** So I get in my feelings when I see everyone talking about how horrible and selfish their baby's father is and how he doesn't care and doesn't do anything for them then I think l about my baby's father and how he was only selfish when it came to me. People say there's no such thing as a man loving you too much but there is. I broke up with my x because his love was more like possession I couldn't do anything if it didn't include him he was insecure and always thought I was fucking every man or woman I came in contact with always accusing me of something then he would try to control me physically but he did love me. I think about how he would go over the top for me right now and make sure I was comfortable and happy by doing whatever it takes if he knew I was still carrying his child it makes me want to call him and tell him I Lied about the abortion. I miss him at times but I know my decision was for the best because we were so Toxic together but I do miss how he treated me, he put me on the highest pedestal and no one came before me not even his family that's when I knew something wasn't right cause he would get mad if I put my mother before him we weren't together a full yr I love my family more than anything sorry I'm not sorry I do miss him though *sigh*
Valerie·
I know the love seemed strong but it's more of an obsession and that's not a good thing. My ex was crazy like that, accusing me of sleeping with anything that walked by. Which was crazy because we were always together and he also thought I was the biggest bitch in the world. He would yell at me to leave so I did and then he would beg me to come back. Walking on egg shells is a really hard way to get thru life. No one should have to live that way. My husband now let's me be me and I couldn't be happier. It's been 10 years and that other POS is still in the same shitty boat he was in when we were together.
Mel·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (26 нед.)
exactly he was obsessed with me to the point I was scared for my life and still am. he still calls me from m restrict and different numbers and I can't change my number until I change the color of my car because he'll come to my job and if I refuse to see him he feels rejected and will vandalize my car to make me feel how he feels. I told him to get counseling but he won't because I won't be with him after so I'm stuck trying to figure out if I even want to tell him about his first daughter Eben when she's about 3 and if he finds out from someone else which he probably will because I live in a small town I'm afraid of what he'll do because he acts on impulse and I feel he might try and kidnap her just to hurt me how I hurt him because that's the kind of person he is @valrocks
Valerie·
If he threatens you or does anything crazy get a restraining order. Don't feel bad for him. This is one of the few times it's ok to be selfish and think about yourself and your daughter. Eventually he will only be an afterthought.