My brother has taken over what was my room way before my bf moved in 😒 & honestly I want it back not…
My brother has taken over what was my room way before my bf moved in 😒 & honestly I want it back not only for me but because were having a baby and I need my space. Having my bed in the living room gives us no privacy no nothing. My bf wants to tell him but my brother be having such a smart mouth that my bf doesn't even wanna get physical or verbal with him. My brother doesn't wanna understand that we need the room & he needs to move out to the living room because he sleeps alone anyway, my bf said we should just take his stuff out & put our stuff in there but I don't have time to be fighting honestly. My brother needs to understand & he's being a dick head. He's barely even home anyway 😒 idk what to do ?!
Naomie S.·
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I'd be rude and remove his stuff and put yours in there. he'll get over it. you're a family and you need that area.
wgj·
@naomiedgd, that is seriously my first option to do am just waiting for my bf to pay the rent so we can have even more reason to do so. Idk what's the problem anyway it stresses me out
Angela·
I say ask nicely first then if he still refuses take his stuff out who's house is a? @wandal24
wgj·
It's my mom's house & she's going to tell him also he's just an asshole about it @preciouslove
Angela·
he should be understanding smh especially with all the baby stuff ur gona need room and space wen she's born good thing u have ur mom on ur side @wandal24
wgj·
@preciouslove, he's still a kid he's 17 if I don't get the room the by day the rent gets payed am just gonna take his stuff out & put mine in there because he's barely home anyway he's home like twice a week. It's stressing me out because am not having a baby shower at this point anymore just because I wanna find a comfortable spot for the baby & I.
Angela·
yea I would too lol especially if he's not home ever that's crazy I have a younger brother I kno how they are
wgj·
@preciouslove, what would you do? Lol 😣
Angela·
@wandal24, my brother is crazy he would try and fight my bf for sure lol I would make sure it was me that talks to him about it don't mention ur bf tell him u need more room to get things ready for baby and so u can rest better if he still don't listen u move everything and tell him u did it he won't hit u would he? it's better not to have ur bf handle it ur brother will always forgive u but not so much ur bf n u don't want tension.
wgj·
@preciouslove, yeah you're right because that's the least I would want am stressing enough already. Am definitely following you on that one thanks girl 🌸
Angela·
ur welcome hun good luck! let me kno wat happens
wgj·
@preciouslove, i will 😇 I appreciate it thank u!!