My MIL kills me! I'm like dude get off your "we can't do anything for ourselves post" I want to pull my hair out! She…

My MIL kills me! I'm like dude get off your "we can't do anything for ourselves post" I want to pull my hair out! She even told my husbands sister he hated her(which he does) and doesn't want her to meet our daughter (which was a lie). She just text me saying my husband hated her because he won't bring our daughter 3 hours to see her. In my mind I said "no he is just tired of putting in all the effort to see his family and his family not doing anything in return" ugh the one reason I didn't want to move to MO.