baby girl is weighing in at 7lbs 14oz, my cervix is really soft and that when contractions pick up I…

baby girl is weighing in at 7lbs 14oz, my cervix is really soft and that when contractions pick up I should go pretty quick, I'm at 1cm. and her head is also extremely low. Dr. said if I don't have her by next week then to come back and see them. after appt. husband and I had sex and now for the past hour and a half I've been having really painful back pain and the top of my belly gets super tight and there is pressure down there.... I hope it happens soon!