Oh that's okay sweetie I'm glad it did! Try looking at the positive sides instead of the negatives. If your reason isn't stronger than your what ifs then your reason isn't strong enough 😘 xx

it has actually helped Lool thank you @mummybrookes xx

I'd personally go for it, those things come along the way (in my opinion) however if you are struggling with the thoughts and worries of the 'What it's?' Why not sit down with your partner and write out all the pros and cons. Then write a little note to each other in secret speaking from your heart of your one deepest worry. Talk about it and work out a route to get out of that whilst having another baby on the way. A positive is you'll have the 9 months from the pregnancy and then how long it takes to conceive to be working on your worries. Sorry if that's not helped any xx