So sick of the shit my step sons mom says... I've been caring for him like my own since he was an…

@j.d-rose, its so sickening! Its making him SO confused! He loves me but he's scared its wrong! She tells him he's not allowed to go with me anywhere, not allowed to potty him, give him a bath put him to bed ect...He's not allowed to talk about his sister, because "its not his sister" even though they have the same dad. She flipped out on his 2nd birthday swinging him around screaming and swearing because i went with my husband to pick him up for dinner, he was devastated! I'm a mother myself, I am a nurse working full time, I'm responsible there is no valid reason for her behavior. I didn't ruin a marriage, im not a home wrecker, my husband was a friend of mine with a baby, he met her at a bar and had a fling and knocked her up, and maned up and took responsibility...

I am going through the same thing. My step son is 3 years old and thinks that I am his true mommy. Which I am. I have taken care of him since he was a baby, I love him like my own and do everything for my boys. His biological "mom" says things like that. "That's not your family. That's not your brother and she isn't your mom" it takes a true monster to say those things to an innocent child. All we can do is love them and reassure them that we are his family!

@mommy_faith thank you, its so hard! I wish he understood, its okay to love me! She makes it seem wrong. and I know he's only 3 but the things he says sometimes are hurtful! When he says my momma doesnt like you or momma says bad things I ask him if I say bad things about momma and he says no and i tell him thats right its not nice to say mean things... I just cant wait until hes older and he understands... I knew she was gonna do this, i told my husband when he was a baby she was gonna try to make him hate me.. Hes so confused!

I know it's really hard. He will understand when he gets a little older who his true mother is!