choosing 1 child over another is the worse thing a man can do. and it's always sadie and I who suffer. my bf is quitting his high paying job because his son can't handle it. so now I have to work out of town overnights full time plus some over time. I was only 1 or 2 day away from being full time anyways. which means sadie is with me all week and he won't see her. I'm about to be done with our relationship. we already live like we are single