I vow to never let my daughter feel the pain and rejection I've felt from my family. It has done so…
I vow to never let my daughter feel the pain and rejection I've felt from my family. It has done so much damage and I could never imagine having my baby girl go through that. So saying that I will do what ever I can to make sure that doesn't happen, even if that means removing people one by one. Melody doesn't deserve it and I'm not going to subject her to that EVER. I don't care who this pisses off, this is my child and I will do whatever I can to protect her. She is my world and I'm not going to let her feel the pain I've felt. I will give her all the love I ever failed to receive, because she deserves nothing but the most love and support she could ever get. So if you feel this offends you maybe you should step back and look in the mirror and reevaluate how you think and do things. She'll be here in 2 1/2 months and I don't have time for petty games and bullshit. Melody and her Daddy and I will be just fine without a lot of people. We have this in hand and we'll do whatever it is to be the best parents we can be.
Mrs.Young·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (29 нед.)
I know that's right I'm the same way
Brittany·
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I had a surprise baby shower thrown by my SO family and none of my family even bothered to show up. I'm just so fed up. @mommyagain
Mrs.Young·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (29 нед.)
@mellysmommy0805, mines is the same way on down to my fake momma but like you said remove anybody who's not there to support you and your family it's less stress to deal with anyways
Kristina·
My mother tried removing those people from my life when I was younger, however it was harder because I actually knew them and I didn't believe they were the horrible people she said they were. well I got older and found out she was right. I've gotten hurt constantly and have since then removed myself from their sad little lives. I have one son now and a baby on the way and I will not let my children even know that part of my family exists. I know that sounds horrible. But the family and friends that are in there lives now are what matter. loving and caring people that have been constant. I'm creating my own family now.
Brittany·
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I'd rather her not know them at all. Me and her daddy will give her everything she needs physically and emotionally. She doesn't need toxic people feeding into that. @me barnes
Brittany·
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@kebarnes
Kristina·
@mellysmommy0805, I totally agree with that. it's easier for them that way. But for me it still doesn't help the hurt I still feel from it and it's probably been 3 years since I've decided that. But time heals all.
Brittany·
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Yes it does. At least if I cut them off now they can't continue to damage me. @kebarnes