Ugh my moms supposed to be planning my baby shower for the weekend after next, we live in tn but we…

Ugh my moms supposed to be planning my baby shower for the weekend after next, we live in tn but we would have to drive down to louisiana for it. She's been ignoring my text messages and not telling me anything about it. We can't afford to drive down there for nothing, it would be nice if we could just go down there to visit them but it's really hard for my husband to take off of work, it would be no pay, he can't take vacation because he's taking it when baby is born