Honestly you would think I would still be over the moon but I feel like rubbish:( maybe it was the…
Honestly you would think I would still be over the moon but I feel like rubbish:( maybe it was the night I had I don't know, baby would not settle for me but would for his father, just feel like I'm not bonding with him and it makes me so upset😭😭😭
Elisabete·
Мама сына-младенца
Aw i know how that feels :( took me ages to feel a bind with my son. It's normal..you're still in shock probably. Dont worry..he know you're mummy!xx
Leigh Messenger·
Мама сына-младенца
Because we live with my OH parents there always people here with us, I haven't had time just me and him:/ maybe that is what it is @kendricksmommy xx
Elisabete·
Мама сына-младенца
Aw yeah that could be it! Just steal him and give him lots of cuddles :) xx
Leigh Messenger·
Мама сына-младенца
I try haha, I've woke up this morning and my OH has taken him out @kendricksmommy xx
Elisabete·
Мама сына-младенца
Ergh i would hate that! Honestly i would actually panic..x
Leigh Messenger·
Мама сына-младенца
I no thankyou @cookedsushi just won't want to cause any arguements:/ xxx
Leigh Messenger·
Мама сына-младенца
hmm I suppose:/ I was up all night with baby he wouldn't settle so I can understand why they didn't wake me to go out but it's has upset me a bit knowing my babies not here when I wake up @cookedsushi xx
Natasha·
Мама двоих (младенец)
If you're upset then mention it to your OH and try to explain why it upset you. My OH needs that sort of thing spelled out for him... He just doesn't understand why it would bother me. bonding can take time. Try taking him for a walk and remember to stay calm. Babies do cry and fuss... it's their only way of communicating. It does not mean you are failing. If you start feeling down then chat to your HV or GP. Try not to be hard on yourself... it's a hard enough time as it is! xx