So.. When I was about 20 weeks along me and my boyfriend (and babys father) had a really really harsh break up; which resulted in getting the courts involved and I have a protection order against him now -- which we both violated, a lot has changed since then and weve started working on us and focusing on whats important.. It wasnt anything like him hitting me it was like harassment and threats. Im trying to get it dropped but i dont think were going to get a hearing in time for the birth; and my dad said if he shows up at the hospital hes going to call the police.. Which will get him locked up.. I dont know what to do! Anyone have any type of advice??
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true. that's what sucks about your family getting involved in your relationships, they're never willing to forgive as easily as you are. maybe you should get your baby's father to talk to them if it wouldn't cause too much confusion. if they see that he's changing and making an effort then they might let him?
@l0tus, yeah but the thing about my dad - it wouldnt just be my dad that would be my entire family not coming or knowing.. And I live with my parents. So its like I chose him and risk loosing everything, or I chose my family and risk him going to jail..
honestly, you'll probably just have to pick between your dad and the baby's father being there. it's a hard decision but unless there's someway where you can tell your father that he shouldn't be ruining your child's birth like that and stressing you out then i'm not seeing another option
My boyfriend already said he would call im just scared its going to upset my dad more then he already is @l0tus