Everyone says to me "oh you're nesting" and it annoys me because yeah I guess technically I am, but…

Everyone says to me "oh you're nesting" and it annoys me because yeah I guess technically I am, but 1) y'all know I had to wait to do anything because my new room wasn't ready and 2) "nesting" or just doing what you need to do regardless?????? And they say it like its so cute but really it means going through a bunch of stuff and doing it by myself. My back hurts and I'm cranky and I wish I could wave a wand and have it all done. Lol