You'll enjoy it on the day, I honestly felt how you feel and didn't want to go, but once your there you'll love it. Don't be disheartened by negative people xx

It's a horrible feeling ain't it :/ like my OHs mum was involved and wanting to know stuff about everyone else's pregnancy and with mine she hasn't bothered, instead had a go at me for booking a 4d scan telling me I'm wasting money :/ I so tempted to tell my mum to not put any banners or balloons anywhere because it's not going to be worth it and I don't want a lot of fuss anyway :/ @stacey804 xx

Yeah I know the feeling, I announced my pregnancy and my cousin messaged me to say she wasn't happy and needed to be pregnant.... So now she's 25 weeks pregnant, 10 weeks behind me, with also a little boy, obviously she couldn't choose the gender of baby but she told me her intentions, my gran has dropped me like a hot potato to know run up her arse. I've had it all my life as she's her first granddaughter. It's shit but I just let them get on with, I know what family is going to be more connected with my baby. Xx

I'm trying not to but just feel like those lot aren't arsed about it :/ which hurts because theres loads of kids in the family and they have all been fussed over @stacey804 xx

Loads of people dropped out of mine the day before, and I was so upset. But to be honest I didn't miss them when they weren't there. The most important people will turn up and that's what matters hun. Don't let people ruin your day (: xx