My bf moved with me to be closer to my family when I got pregnant. He has made it clear he hates…

Let him fight then. If he's that immature, you'll probably move with him and then wnd up being pissed that he isn't helping you enough and you'd be wishing you stayed home.

@arivera64, he's a good father and a good boyfriend. and I understand he's not happy here. and I don't mind moving, I just don't think now is the best time for it.

how long do you have to do in school and he can't take your kids unless your an unstable mother or on drugs so don't worry ..... I say if you don't have long just finish there I'm 20 years old I got pregnant at 16 my husband wanted me to move for a better job ..... I did and lost all my school stuff and never got to finish die to the fact the schools in Florida couldn't find info from the schools in Tennessee I hate that I never stayed and finished now I'm stuck getting a ged do WATS best for you hun

@naty199613, I'm finishing up my sophomore year now. then 2 more years to go. and I am taking a votech program next year go get my cna license but not if I move. I just don't know what to do.

and if he's a good dad and boyfriend he is just saying this cause he's annoyed and it will get to you and make you think he won't do it

he will stay cause he won't leave his kids nor you

@naty199613, he says he's unhappy here and hates it. and that he has nobody here because I had him move away from his family.

Well you need to stand your ground

@arivera64, @naty199613 I don't want him to be unhappy, it's just gonna make our relationship bad. but if I move then I don't know what I'll do about schooling, or the fact that I'm 30 weeks pregnant. and then my parents will probably be pissed. and his family doesn't help us at all, only mine. so if we lose that then idk what we would do. I'm just torn between it.

@6215teenmom, my husband said the same thing he doesn't want to be near family but wants you to be near his he's being unfair ..... so nothing you say goes but if he says your moving then you have to do what he says, it can't be like that he needs to atleast talk about it cause if you leave now then you'll hate it down there because you'll feel the same way he does

@naty199613, he doesn't want to move back closer to his family I don't think. he wants to be away from both our families. but he's already talking about his little brother moving in with us after he graduates.

You have more to lose by moving. I think you have your answer. Stop worrying about his happiness and worry about what makes the most sense. Sometimes as adults we have to do things that don't necessarily make up happy, in order to take care of what's important

@arivera64, but I'm not gonna break up my family just so I can graduate with people I know either. I don't think I'll be unhappy moving because I've wanted to eventually anyways. I just don't want it to cause some big war between my parents thinking I'm taking there grandkids away or anything.

Well good luck. The choice is yours.

... OK I'm done it's like your happier seeing him succeed then you succeed witch is great for him to but he's not thinking about your school he's thinking about himself so I'll let you figure this out on your own clearly me and @arivera64 know what we are saying you need to be happy to not saying you'll be miserable if you move bit finish school there because that's what you want if your meant to be he will support you the same way your supporting him all you need to do is finish you school and both will be happy later on good luck

@naty199613, 😉

She is young as hell and thinks she knows what's best for her...I don't understand why she even posted about dis for feedback but to each his own...sounds like dude got a control issue and want it his way and she gon give it to him so all de best to her @naty199613 @arivera64

👏👏@royallioness

😉 @naty199613

Boo let me explain something to you. You have to make sure YOU succeed for your babies as well, daddy may not always be around or be able to do his part. Me & my boyfriend are currently in two different states because I stayed in Texas, where I go to college and he had to go to Arkansas for his football scholarship and to get his education. We've been long distance for the past year. Our relationship is completely fine. We still see each other blah blah blah, BUT we also realize the separation is only temporary. I'm due in Sept with our twins and he won't be home then. But as adults we both understand we are doing what we HAVE to do, not what we WANT to do. My point is your boyfriend needs to grow up. & me & my boyfriend are young as well, only 20 & 21. Don't be a fool behind a guy.

@royallioness, I'm 17. thank you. and this app is for you to post what you want. if you don't like what I post don't read it.

@dang_dridri, I just don't want to be doing it by myself either. it's nothing about control.

I'm not complainin about ur post boo boo kitty...I can care less..I'm just sayin u went against everybody advice..y even post it?

and 17 is YOUNG

@6215teenmom, no I'm not saying he controls you or anything. But stay where you have the most help to complete what you need most. I also stayed in Texas because that's where both of our families are and you will need help, everyone needs help at sometime. How old is your boyfriend?

@royallioness, exactly it's freaking advice. I'm not going against anything. I was just saying my point on it all. and really boo boo kitty? I'm not 10. and 17 might be young but I'm not a child either.

@naty199613, @arivera64 @royallioness she young and still in a fantasy world why did she make the post every time y'all give her positive feedback she comes back with something contradicting it self she gotta bump her head but with two kids you have no room for error @6215teenmom it should be about you and those baby's its hard being a teen mom he gone get you away from ur family and have your mind going a thousand miles baby girl you may think it now but ur family is ur back bone when he not there yo family will be and that's just from experience put all your trust in him if u want I hate to say it he might have you depresses he can get up and go as he pleases you can't you have two kids I'm not judging but be smart about it

@dang_dridri, my boyfriend is 19. turning 20 in october.

@dang_dridri, I hope she does what's rite for her baby's man or no man it takes a village to raise a child family is what you need that man can sell a dream and move u away and have you looking crazy at the end of day

Just stay where you are. Neither of you guys are really stable enough to just be moving your family away from all family support. Once you graduate y'all can go wherever. You'll definitely regret leaving in the long run if you go. Do what's best for you & the babies.

and for him to make you choose shows how immature he is

People can ask for opinions and advice even if they aren't going to follow it. That's ok. Dont be upset. It's not our choice to make. We can offer advice, opinions, guidance etc but the final decision is hers. It's not going to affect us, so give your advice and just move along. She has a long road ahead and she has to find her own way. She'll learn. I'm no longer going to comment on this post so please nobody else tag my name. 😉

I tagged ur name so who is that comment for? I was just stating that I agreed with what ever everyone was saying didn't need ur feed back on anything I was saying doll @arivera64

but the best of luck to you baby I'll send a prayer up for you let me get off this post @6215teenmom

@kingdamari My last comment wasn't feedback for you in particular or I would have tagged you and said so. Also, you weren't the only person who has tagged my name so far in this post. Not just that but it was going for any possible future commenters that may have wanted to agree with some of the things i mentioned. I just didn't want to be a part of her post anymore because it's getting quite frustrating. Some people just have to learn on their own

Too me it seems like you have your mind made up anyway, you are going to end up moving with him I can tell just by reading your comments. These ladies are just give long youth advice but it seems like you don't want to take it or you are just looking for someone to tell you to just move with him and leave school and everything behind. In my opinion.

@arivera64, I didn't even know I tagged you in anything.

@dang_dridri, my apologies it selected the wrong name off the list

@kingdamari exactly!

oh OK @arivera64

Ur a child in my eyes sweetie but all de best to u tho!👌 @6215teenmom