Okay so recently a lot of people have been saying to me that they never imagined me having kids...…
Okay so recently a lot of people have been saying to me that they never imagined me having kids... ever since I was about 14 I have wanted a baby! People act shocked when I say I always wanted my first in my early 20s and when I was at school and people were planning their careers I always said I just wanted to be a mum. I feel like people, especially my family, should know this about me!! :( maybe its just pregnancy hormones but I really do feel like I've just been ignored my whole life and no ones knows me :(
Nikki·
@firsttimemummy21, it will be ur hormones making you feel even more emotional about it.. what ur feeling would be anyone's natural reaction.. I had something similar, because I always said I wanted to be a mum my family thought I'd go get pregnant by any walking willy and be a very young mum.. I'm 28 married and now having my first as I've always been quite traditional but I keep getting told how I've 'shocked' everyone in how I've done it.. hurt me to begin but now I ignore it.. you've known all along what you have wanted and now they're realising they never paid much attention they're just being mean.. don't let them get you down hun xx
Ashleigh 🎄🎅🏻·
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@barnold, I've had a few people say they thought I'd have a career first... I have never said I wanted that xx
Nikki·
@firsttimemummy21, next person that says that just politely say 'well you obviously don't know the real me then' and walk away.. may make you feel a little guilty and rude but believe me you will feel better and ul probably open their eyes.. in my eyes you have chosen a career, motherhood.. and that's the best career out there xx
Ashleigh 🎄🎅🏻·
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@barnold, thank you :) xx