Would I be wrong for not wanting anyone except like our parents, not even sisters, aunts, etc over…
Would I be wrong for not wanting anyone except like our parents, not even sisters, aunts, etc over after my baby is born until his first doctors appt?
missing268user·
no you're not wrong, I am doing the same thing:)
Rose·
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Of course not... Your baby, your decision. I don't want people visiting to see baby until 2-3 weeks after..
keirsten·
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Great! I didn't want them to think I was trying keep them away. I just rather him get his shots before he's around so many people and germs @hermommy @squishy3
Jordan 🌸·
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Not at all I don't want any visitors for the first couple of weeks
Queen👑·
i plan on only close ppl visiting at first.
keirsten·
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My SO has 5 sisters and 5 aunts since it's so many I dnt want all them to come around except to see him when he's born untill he get his shots, especially since they smoke and things @mamasylvas2016
Queen👑·
i agree. im only havin like the god mother and my bfs parents
Queen👑·
@kannonsmommy,
keirsten·
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Yes that's what I'm thinking too @mamasylvas2016
Nicole Matthews·
no you're not wrong. once we get home no one is setting foot in my house until at least a week after we have been home and had time to adjust. I'm not dealing with ppl this go round. made that mistake with my 1st. screw that. folks are selfish. .. they don't care about the mom once the baby comes out.
keirsten·
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That's sound exactly like me. I would rather adjust to my new baby since im a FTM and then have ppl visit @nicemmcha2015
Nicole Matthews·
@kannonsmommy, oh yeah, I believe it'll be easier that way. but we have extremely selfish ppl in our families and it's going to cause so much drama but it's to the point that I don't even care. it's mine, my husband's and my daughter's life that is changing forever... we need that time together to get to know the new baby and adjust... to them it's just 1 more kid to irritate. and honestly I can't stand for ppl to pile up in my house and just sit there and hold my kids.. and them track dirt all over my house and drink all my tea and whatever soda my husband has. like my home is my safe place I guess u could say and I'm not crazy about ppl invading thay space. I have really bad anxiety and it makes it go from like a 5 to a 20 real quick.
keirsten·
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Yess I totally agree! People do not care about how you feel @nicemmcha2015