I'm so pissed!!!! My fiancé and I got into an argue meant last night about me not having enough time…

I'm so pissed!!!! My fiancé and I got into an argue meant last night about me not having enough time for him. So today I got a sitter for Emma so we could have a date night. I leave to take Emma to my parents so we can leave and he texts me that he's taking a nap for an hour. So I'm aggravated but I'll deal with it. So I just got home expecting him to be ready now that he got his nap in and he hasn't even showered for the day or anything!!! We only have until 9 before we have to pick Emma up. I'm so furious. He shouldn't have even needed a nap. He slept till noon!