I just had 99% of the people that said they'd come to my baby shower say never mind. So, I'm going to cancel it... it would end up being just like my daughter's baby shower where no one showed up and then when I was cleaning up everything a few co workers showed up just for the food.... why is it I go and support all of my friends with their kids and everything, but they all back out on me, not once, but TWICE? and i was really needing the help with baby stuff because the funeral and everything was so expensive, and I'm still trying to recover from getting robbed a couple months ago...