@mellysmommy0805, unless they were actually in our shoes I don't think they'll understand completely. I know my husband tries and does everything he can for me. sometimes it can just be a bit overwhelming for him. And instead of thinking he does anything wrong ever, he tells me about all the bad things I do. I'm carrying twins, I'm exhausted most of the time. my skin is always itchy. I'm growing out of my maternity clothes. it hurts to walk, I have numerous BH a day since 20weeks. I work full-time, but thankfully on the computer at home, but I still have to force myself to work and stay awake. it's getting very hard to drive anymore and go out in this heat. I have so much pressure down in my privates and I'm at risk for preterm labor. I'm supposed to be resting more but it's impossible. we've been waiting on our house to be ready, and we still have to pack. he doesn't have much time cause he works. but my legs give out on me bending over. I really just want everything ready and prepared before the babies come. so I hope he understands why I get stressed and hormonal. because it's alot to deal with. I know everything will work out and fall into place. I just hope to get some rest before I have the babies. 3 kids I don't think I'll get much rest for awhile.

Oh I don't believe men will ever understand because well they're men. They can try their hardest to be there for us though. I'm glad I have my SO but sometimes he really doesn't get it and that's frustrating. @shannaa24

@mellysmommy0805, it's okay. I feel the same way sometimes. it's alot to deal with plus fluctuating hormones. it'll happen after you have the baby too. it can be hard to deal with if you have no support or help, from your husband. hopefully mine will be more helpful this time around. I'm also planning to not get on BC right after. I want to give my body time to heal properly, hormones and all. I wish more people understood us. instead of making us feel crazy or put us down for it. im not sure men really understand, no matter how many times it gets explained or several apologies.

I'm just getting into my third trimester and I feel more hormonal and more irritated than ever! I feel like my irritability won't go away at all sometimes, no matter what I do.