Is it odd that I feel like once I know my babies gender I'll feel more connected to him/her? I feel…

I felt more connected once I started feeling him move more. It's hard to get connected to something if you can't even feel it

I'm 24 weeks and I still don't feel a connection. Makes me feel horrible too but I'm sure it's just because I need her to be in my arms to feel that way

I definitely did. Cuz then I could place a name to her and start shopping more. It definitely hit my husband way harder on the reality scale. He's in a panic with finances making sure we are pinching pennies and being as prepared as possible 🙈 it's driving me a bit crazy 😂 but don't feel bad about it 😘

I thought I wasn't gonna feel connected to my son because I wanted a girl so bad even in my ultrasound video of the tech saying its a boy you hear me crying lol.....I just think it's natural you will connect with the baby no matter the gender the connection will be sooner or later

@Msj1996, I also think once I feel the baby move I'll feel more connected :)

@kimberlysbaby, I feel the same, like I'll feel it all when the baby is actually here

@Celestea, yeah I'm not worried about the gender and the connection I'm just saying I don't feel a connection at all yet, but I know I will eventually . I love my little mango baby lol

@christineg, aww ! Yes I can't wait to know the gender, and begin to prepare and actually be able to call him/ her their name