my baby father (ex boyfriend of 2 years) now 😔 Said he doesnt want to be tide down. yet im 7 months…
my baby father (ex boyfriend of 2 years) now 😔 Said he doesnt want to be tide down. yet im 7 months with his 1st child (our lil girl). But je told me he wsnt to work it out THEN he needed time to (FIND HIMSELF) I get the fact that we both are young (18) and i know he didnt want me to keep the baby but i couldnt get rid of a life. it hurts bc he will be on snap chat with famales and males smoking all times of the night after he gets off work but over (12doctor visits) hes only been to two of them. (he says i stay to far out) OR (my car is messed up yet he can go out smoke drink party ) my dumb self so in love gave him 10 dollars in gas to come see me yet he spent it on weed. 😢 Why cant i let him just go.. But id be wrong if i move to Flordia or back to Philly right ? then id be wrong for putting him on child support. (my baby isnt getting his last name) Hes not showing me hes gonna be a great father... hes showing me what kind of dad hes gonna be. 💔 but im trying to be strong for me and my daughter
Kamara·
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you would not be wrong for putting him on child support. he needs to contribute he made the baby too, whether he voluntarily does it or the state has to make him
how far apart do you stay from each other? you didn't stay too far away before you got pregnant but now its too far? Chile put his ass on child support. give him the chance to be a dad if he wants and if not move on. but clearly you cant depend on him. my bd has only been to three appointments. he cheated on me. is back and forth about everything and I been trying to be nice and work with him but some men just don't care so we gotta do what we gotta do.
Modesty·
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i used to stay 8 mins away from him. on the gps it says i now stay 34 mins from him. i live 5 mins away from yhr gsypy camp in NorthAugusta it doesnt really take 34 mins to get to my house unless you just dont know your way. @averysmom8_3_16
Kamara·
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yeah he's making up excuses. my bd lives on the other side of town and it takes 30 minutes for him to get here depending on traffic. and his car cuts off when it wants. I would out him on child support but still keep him involved. tell him about appointments, how she's doing, stuff like that. keep him up to date. so he can never say you shut him out or tried to keep her from him. if he decides not to be a part, let that be his decision. but i think he's already made his choice based on how he's acting.
Modesty·
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i feel the same way. he says oh ill be there for her. but i need his help now you know like its not all on my mom nun of it should be. and i do tell him ahead of time for doctor apts. two in advance so he can ler his job know. i will let him be in her life i just dont want his "thug life" harming our child. my dad has been locked up since i was 2 i just want him to do right by her and be a father 😢 i swear these hormones have me being an extra big crybaby .. @averysmom8_3_16
Kamara·
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well just continue to do that and help your mom.out as much as you can.