guess I'm going through the rest of this pregnancy alone. not like its any different. been going to…

I'm in the same situation

o don't understand it. he was so happy and excited at first now that we aren't together he treats me like shit and acts like I'm gonna keep the baby away from him. @morganlove5

I don't understand it either but my situation might be a little different because I broke up with mine 4 days before I found out I was pregnant and at first he was excited but has yet to be supportive in any way @averysmom8_3_16

oh we broke up last month because he cheated and tried to flip it on me and still does. he was so excited I told him I didn't get my period yet and he told his whole family we were having a baby before I could even get a positive test! @morganlove5 now he's so back and forth about everything he doesn't know what he wants to do.

mine just started lying to me where he was at so I didn't want to waste my time and effort on someone who could care less when we found out he was really excited but now it's like he could care less I been going through this pregnancy alone. it's a hard situation when cheating is involved i lost all respect for my baby's father and it's really hard to even have a friendship at this point. @averysmom8_3_16 would you get back with him if he came back to you?

at this point no because he's so inconsistent. he doesn't know what he wants. and with a baby involved I don't have time for you to be walking in and out of.my sons life. he would really have.to prove himself. I love him so much but he hurt me to my core, especially cheating on me after we lost a twin. @morganlove5

Yeah that's true sometimes it's hard because you want your little family but just stay strong until he really proves himself and go from there and take things slow @averysmom8_3_16

yeah. I'm trying. I love him and I do want us to be a family. he said he has trust issues with me when he's the one who cheated. he never trusted me from day one and I know that. he can never admit to his wrongs. I don't think we will ever get back together he will have to be a completely different man. @morganlove5

he has a guilty conscience which leads to trust issues and the first step would be him admitting about the cheating if that happens it would take a long time from there. it's hard for me in my situation because how can you try to work it out with someone you lost all respect for its going to be a while till he gains respect back @averysmom8_3_16

right. and yes and he won't even admit to cheating all he says is "you got caught too" (having a friendly not sexualized convo with an old friend) like that's nowhere near the same thing! and I was still willing to forgive him and move on. now he's lost my trust and my respect. @morganlove5