Do any of you ladies (mostly FTM) get embarrassed or feel uncomfortable of being seen by your S.O…
Do any of you ladies (mostly FTM) get embarrassed or feel uncomfortable of being seen by your S.O after having a child since your body isn't the same? I mean I know your body changes but the worst part of all (I think) is getting stretch marks and not feel as comfortable/attractive as you once did before having a child. 😖 Is it just me being weird or do many of you feel/felt that way?
Lori 🍕·
lol no I deff feel that way
Melissa.🌻💁🏻✨·
Мама дочки-младенца
yes so much
missing619user·
@mrsmord Ok so it's just not me. Lol! I got so devastated after I gave birth cause I lost weight pretty quickly but that's when they started appearing 😞
Lori 🍕·
@est2012 my son is almost 5 months PP and I suffer terribly with this still . that's why I'm serious about my eating healthy regime lol
missing619user·
@mommytolucia, how do you cope with that? I don't let him near me and change in the bathroom away from him 😄😄😄
missing619user·
@mrsmord, I feel the same way but I'm only 3 months PP. I guess it doesn't get better lol
Lori 🍕·
@est2012 I deff can , just gatta work toward it !!!
Breanna·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (21 нед.)
After I gave birth to my son I was squashy and gross plus I had a episiotomy. I didn't even want to look at myself let alone have my husband look at me
missing619user·
@mommybre14, Yep I completely understand how you feel. 😞
Kaitlyn·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I hide my stomach when I'm getting changed or anything- I feel flabby and gross 😩
missing619user·
@finallypink429, same here!!! Don't think I'll ever feel comfortable as I once did, especially because we're thinking of giving my daughter a sibling. So yeah, it'll be WORSE! 😞
Kaitlyn·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I met my husband when my first child was 8 months old so it wasn't pretty to begin with but now a second baby and I lost a ton of weight right away I'm so embarrassed and he likes to joke and I'm scared he'll make a joke about how I look and I'm tooooo sensitive after having this baby lol. If the men heard what we were saying they would probably call us crazy for feeling this way lol
missing619user·
@finallypink429, most definitely lol!!! But yeah I'm sensitive as well. I lost my baby weight pretty quick which is why I got the stretch marks left and right and from every angle lol 😖 and I'm sure it'll be worse with my second one but I'll be sure to be emotionally ready lol