I have a 4 yo and a new born. My 4 yo keeps acting up since we brought our newborn home. What are ways to make the older sibling feel not so left out and wanted. He had been breaking toys because we are not listening to him or he is not talking to us because we don't play with him anymore.
He already helps with feeding, changing diapers and holds her a lot. He still needs more attention.
Yes let him help you with the baby that definitely sounds like jealousy.
My sister said that taking a hour a day one of you parents to dedicate to them is really helpful. They get to feel special and the whole hour is just for them