Because of trust issues the hubby and I have had in the past and because of stupid shit the both of…

I love to see things work out! =) Congrats, and you guys stay in love, you hear me?

I hear ya. so far it's 8 years and still counting.. so I have hope for the future. Neither of us are quitters and now we have 2 girls to worry about... so.. I hear ya. :)

Im glad he trust you. My situation sucks. The baby is my husbands, but thanks to people spreading rumors which includes 4 different stories on how I cheated on him and different times, and none of them add up, and we both know it, and he trust me, cause the rumors came from 3 girls who are pissed off that they cant have him, plus they are all unfaithfull, and have a reputation, and are pissed cause Im loyal, and love him. We have to get a test done however, to prove it to the army, for hes a sargeant, and they will see it as Infidellity on both of us if the bullshit gets to his higher ups, so we have to prove it to them.

@gingermama, I understand that. My hubby is a Veteran and has another girl with his ex wife. they had to go through the same thing... It'll be okay though. at least I look at it as undeniable proof for your man and may help him get over the rumors if it nags at him at all.

Well now I get to go back to our home town with my son, and slap the three little bitches with proof. You know.. Something they all kept saying they had of me cheating, yet never had anything to show. 😁😂😂

Im going to charge them for defamation of character, fetal distress, emotional distress, and harrasment.

Hope they feel proud of acting like 5 year olds.

@gingermama, lol. Good for you!

I've offered each pregnancy to give my husband a DNA just bc our first son at 16 came out red headed and everybody and their Mommas told him there was no way in hell he could have a red headed blue eyed pale baby. 99.999%. I hope everything keeps going good for y'all! Letting go of the past is hard. I still get upset over ours at times. @gingermama why would the army care if it's his baby or not?

@jenn61115, the military gives you money for being married/having kids etc... to make sure that you as their parent can take care of them. If you're not the parent either biologically or by legally binding paperwork (adoption papers) the military won't give you that money. (adoption of this is what I was told by friends in the military)

My husband is a marine and they aren't like that. There's at least 2 females walking around living on base who are pregnant but not by their husbands. Because the husbands got a vasectomy years ago. And everyone knows including higher ups and nobody cares.

And there's no adoption paperwork for my daughter that I had before we got married and he has to take care of her.

My husband was in back in the early 2000s...it may have changed. But they needed proof that the baby was his when he and his ex wife had their daughter.

Ohhhh nope mine said they stopped giving extra money for each kid. You just get bah for being married and having dependents.