So my sons father and I aren't together or involved anymore. This pregnancy has been hard and shown…

So my sons father and I aren't together or involved anymore. This pregnancy has been hard and shown me a side of him I just never knew existed. So he has two other children and I guess he's trying to "work things out" with their mom. So recently him and I have been trying this whole "let's be friends" thing. And it was going good, so tonight I asked him was he coming to the hospital on Monday when I have the baby. He already stated he didn't want to be in the c section because the sight of blood makes him pass out. So my mom will be in there with me. So he says "I'll come later that night" I said why wouldn't you be there to see your son after birth. His response is "I do things during the day" (which is get his daughter from school). Now I understand he has other kids and what not, but you should be able to put your foot down and tell your other kids mom that you will be at the hospital for the birth of your son and make arrangements. I personally feel he doesn't want to upset her, so he doesn't want her to know he will be coming to the hospital, which is why he wants to come at night. I'm sorry and correct me if I'm wrong, the baby and I should get to be a priority for once. Especially the day he is born. Smh. Am I wrong for being upset? I ended up telling him don't even bother coming and hung up on him.