My boyfriend has his own house. Very responsible man etc. I just hate the fact that he lets everyone…
My boyfriend has his own house. Very responsible man etc. I just hate the fact that he lets everyone come stay with him (family) whenever they are going through. Yeah he's being nice but this shit is annoying. I don't live with him yet (still contemplating) and it's like where is the privacy at? I don't even like going over there anymore because it's overwhelming to me. I might sound like a bitch but my daughter isn't staying over there by herself unless I'm there. It's like how can you come from work or get comfortable in your own house with all these bodies floating around in your house? I'd be annoyed and irritated. Once again I know that's HIS house but I don't want too many in and out bodies around my newborn. Like no, that's not going to happen. He can come visit her at my place. Am I being dramatic or hormonal about the situation?? 🤔
Sommer·
Мама двоих (5 лет, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
That would irritate me. I don't think you're wrong at all.
Paula·
It's understandable that would irritate me too and I like privacy a lot
Dawn Nelson·
Мама дочки (9 лет)
I couldn't do it either and after several long conversations my husband is now more understanding. In my case I have PTSD and severe anxiety. I cannot have random people around me especially in my house. I'm fine with visiting others but no one in my house. I'm an extreme case but it is important to be honest with yourself and him. Good luck
kayla Hernandez·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
Nope you need your space and you want alone time I would feel the same
mashaunda·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (22 нед.)
I love my privacy also and I would love it even more if I shared it with him but I barley go over there anymore. I feel like they control his house more than he does. Smh @paula91
mashaunda·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (22 нед.)
See, I don't live with him and I really don't have a say so to how I want things to go in the household. But I do want him to understand I don't want all that chaos going on around my daughter. I'm trying to sound nice as possible without sounding controlling towards him in his own house. Too many people been in and out the house already. Makes me not even want to stay there if I did decide too. @dawnsurvivor