So I know this is a support group..me and my fiancé have only been together 9 months but because of…
So I know this is a support group..me and my fiancé have only been together 9 months but because of an accident and certain issues that are very personal I had to stop my job being 29 weeks pregnant..well now I'm planning to start working again 1 month after the baby is born because we both need to work but to do this I'm planning to do opposite shifts from my fiancé which is at night I'm worried how this will effect our relationship and I'm really scared that things could go downhill for us..I also don't wanna depend on anyone for babysitting so this would be better for our daughter I'm just worried bout doing this...
Barbara·
Don't do it my relationships have suffered have done overnights 6years and u miss out on so much
Elizabeth·
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Yea that is what I'm most scared of thanks I'm definitely gonna think bout it really strongly. @legendzmomma
Barbara·
Like how r u going to sleep during the day with a newborn
Barbara·
I just took leave and I told them I can't do nights when I come back
Bianca·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (38 нед.)
I wouldn't do it, I'd try to figure something else out. It really puts a strain on a relationship because you never see each other, and when you do you're going to be SO tired that it's not going to be quality time
Elizabeth·
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I agree @legendzmomma also yea that's what I think would happen, my relationship is also important too especially having a child together. @bianca_rose
Bianca·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (38 нед.)
And to have only been together 9 mos, I wouldn't want all that separation so early on