#Randomrant So..on mothers day.. I had a relarive post on Fb saying they were sad and that no matter what they were still a mom and that they missed the opportunity to be a mom to their baby boy..here's the back story..she didn't "lose" her baby..she had an abortion at 4 months..now I know this..because we are related... I felt offended because I'm like..you didn't lose your baby..you terminated it..its a huge difference..especially to someone who has struggled with infertility in the past..was I wrong to be offended..and believe me..I told her how I felt..now she has all these ppl thinking she had a miscarriage when that wasn't the case.. am I wrong?
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A real mother wouldn't do that to her child. She's just trying to have people feel sorry for her. Yeah she probably regrets her decision and should get counseling for it if she needs to BUT she should not make herself look like the victim when her poor innocent child was the victim.
@brudd330, that's how I feel..I'm like reading the comments on Fb like wtf..this isn't what happened. so I messaged her and im like why in the hell did you post that? like that's offensive..
@mommypanda, personal reasons..yes. it was because the guy she got pregnant by left her high and dry..I told her at the time my hubbs and I would adopt but she decided she wanted an abortion...which broke my heart considering at the time my docs told me I wouldn't have children
that is offensive and I feel it's a little sick for her to think she's still a mom after choosing to abort but that's just my opinion @ftmommieoftwiinz
she's trying to be a victim to others but the only victim is the poor baby :/
@mommarodey, @brudd330 @shish exactly..but I felt offended when she said she still consider herself a mom..I'm like no..your not..a abortion at 4 months with no health risks or anything..
@ftmommieoftwiinz, maybe she had reasons to why she couldn't have a child rn.. I understand where you're coming from though.
I think so too..which I can sympathize with..but I'm like..how can you consider your self a mom? @mommypanda
I agree with@mommarodey & @shish she chose to do what she did and now wants to have people feel sorry for her smh
It was her choice to do that. She can be upset about it and probably feels guilty but it is *completely* different than a miscarriage or anything like that. I have a hard time feeling sorry for someone when they made the conscious choice to do something and then down the road they're sad about it.
she feels guilty, as she should. I'm pro choice to an extent, but don't make that decision and then put on a pity party because of the decision u made.
Nope I would've been offended too especially if someone has had a miscarriage in the past and she chose to get rid of her baby and at 4 months I thought u had until 3 months 😳