I don't care how big of a bitch I seem like. If my daughters father ever gets another girlfriend,…

SAAAAME GIRL

No fucking way another woman will part time raise my son! Hubby knows it too 😂😂

@tmariewein, like I don't even care. If he wants to come see her then he can come to my house. I don't care that were broke up. He can do what I want to do

@lbedell95, I agree girl! My thought is, yes this is his son but I'm the one who grew him so I have parental rights when it comes to a stranger. Idgaf if he thinks a certain woman is fit to be my sons "step mom" or wtf ever. Not happening

@tmariewein, my daughter won't ever be calling someone else mom. I will kill that bitch and I don't even care.

I'm not trying to be rude, but all it would take is the father taking you to court for joint custody then there is nothing the mother could do about what he does with his time with the child. whatever doesn't harm the child that is. parental rights aren't given by growing the child. it's proving you are more fit to be the sole guardian to the child. you can't force them to only see their child with you around, unless they are proven to be a danger to themselves or the child in any way they will do supervised visits with a cps worker and that parent. the other parent doesn't always get to be there. how would you expect them to bond if you're there all the time? remember you may have grew that child but 50% of their dna came from their father.

only reason I said what I said is because last yr me and hubby split and this is what we were informed of during a visitation arrangement for our 2 yr old while we were split up that since neither of us were unfit we had to have set days of who had the child on which days. we ended up doing this for a month and hated how awful we felt and what we did to each other and reconciled and are better than ever. we are now expecting #2

@kiml7613, I'm not keeping him away from our daughter. I don't want her around some little girlfriend he will have It has nothing to do with him

All she's saying is that you don't get that say if he takes you to court and gets visitation rights. Where the visitations are done and who they are done with, isn't up to you but up to the courts. You'd have to prove him to be dangerous and unfit which isn't fair to him if he isn't.