My husband was close to getting engaged to his ex girlfriend, the last girl he dated before me. They…
My husband was close to getting engaged to his ex girlfriend, the last girl he dated before me. They ended on a good note and we're friends all the way up until he and I were dating.
Well even though we have already talked a lot about it, I'm still crazy paranoid about him leaving me for her.
He still wants to be friends with her, but I feel like it will really take a toll on our marriage, just because I'm so paranoid. I had a dream last night that he left me for her, and they're not even talking.
What should I do? 😔
Megan·
Мама дочки-младенца
id talk to him about uncomfortable you are
R🐘·
Мама сына-младенца
I have! All it does it just make him feel like I don't trust him, and I do... I've just been in some bad relationships. @meganeileen6
Dj·
Мама дочки-младенца
Trust is really hard. Maybe you can work out hanging out with her too, and then maybe you can learn to trust her as well. I'm friends with a lot of men and I have lost so many of them to girls that don't trust me. If they had just reached out and wanted to be my friend too maybe they wouldn't have been so paranoid. That being said the anxiety is real, it took me a long time to trust my husband 100% no matter the situation and he never even did anything it was just left over junk from other men.
R🐘·
Мама сына-младенца
That's exactly how it is for me @kreeblim! Maybe I will try!
Dj·
Мама дочки-младенца
@henrysmommy good luck i really hope it works out.
R🐘·
Мама сына-младенца
Thank you @kreeblim