Anyone here has a bf or husband that texts a friend once in awhile. to say happy new year or happy…

Well...you are more important than any "friend" so I think he should respect your wishes!

My husband has friends that are girls but none of whom he has had a previous relationship and we all hang out from time to time..

I can see why you would be jealous and why you would be upset but he could also be telling the truth and she can be just a friend. If he texts her to say happy birthday, happy Mother's Day & etc .. Etc.. On special days I don't see anything wrong with it. Though they dated and stuff but could still have a friendship at the end of the day. It would be a different story if he was always texting her. Being extra friendly and shit then yes I would have red flags because girls can be little whores sometimes and not respect the relationship. I personally don't see anything wrong with it unless like I said they text all the time but if it does bother you tell him that it bothers you and you wish for him not to text her because you aren't comfortable and say it's out of respect because she's an ex.

@hai0122, he already told me over and over and over again nothing to be jealous of its stupid. he has girls that are BFF before her met me like 4 of them. they are also mothers and have birthdays. only this one girl he texts for it like wtf

@hai0122, I want to crawl up and cry and punch him or something and leave.... I can't do this

Have u seen any of their messages?

You should be more important than any friend of his and if it bothers you than he should completely understand and knock it off!!

I would tell him he has to respect your wishes or you are going to leave and stick with your guns girl!!

@kamilasmama, I already said and asked all that but he really said it's just a friend. I want to punch him right now for the he'll of it. y only her that's the most thing I'm mad at. he has 2 other BFF girls that are mothers and have bdays..... just hee and of course his mom and sisters..... like she really means something I think..... I Wana cry....

@babytj0214, b it is very important that you feel respected in your relationship

you and that baby are all that should matter and us pregnant woman are already emotional!

@hai0122, I did. the second I got jealous of one of his BFF girl he completely stop talk 2 and texting her. and he told me. and the other one too cuz he dnt want me to get jealous. but this one he text...... it's only happy new year and hapy5mothers day and happy bdays that it.... I want cry..... now.... I'm holding it in... he's asleep next to me touching My baby belly

My husband has friends and I dont really mind because I trust him a lot and they dont really talk a lot and he does it's about me or the baby he always includes me...

BUT if it were an ex gf I would def freak out and leave! or show him that he is going to respect my wishes

@hai0122, I can't tell him to stop talking to her.... thank u so much for helping me..... I still want to punch him

just hang in there girl!

my husband has no female friends. said Puerto Rican women are crazy and he isn't chancing nothing lol. but even if he did i wouldn't mind i trust him and he knows better.

@mamix3_, lol u made me laugh :) thanks

im glad. 😄😃😀😊don't stress it chances are its nothing.

@mamix3_, thank you. ur sweet.... u made me feel better now :)