Okay, so I let my bestfriend move in with us, she just found out she's pregnant and didn't have…
Okay, so I let my bestfriend move in with us, she just found out she's pregnant and didn't have anywhere to go. Well it's been over a month and she hasn't gotten a job no matter how hard I push her. She doesn't help out around the house doing thing such as dishes or trash or anything!! I'm getting so irritated I just want to throw her stuff out in the yard but I'm not that kind of person. No matter how much I talk to her she won't listen then gets pissed and says I'm yelling at her, and I'm about to really yell at her. I have no idea what to do. Someone help😩
deleted-user·
Maybe just keep relaying your feelings about it to her.
Amanda·
You need to set up some boundaries or she's going to keep taking advantage. Make her sign a lease saying she X amount of days to get a job and start pitching in or she gotta go.
Sarah·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (19 нед.)
You should try sitting her down and calmly state your concerns..she's pregnant so she's Super sensitive....tell her you know she's very vulnerable and feeling emotional and that your not trying to be mean...so as nice and non confrontational tell her that you feel it isn't fair to your family that you let her in ,outta the kindness of your heart and your intentions was to help her out temporary till she got on her feet...then express how you feel like she's taking advantage of your hospitality. That you'd appreciate the help and whatever she can do to ease some of the excess load off of you and that it would help you all out in the process... I'm sorry your going through this!! I hope this helps.