My sister said to me "I would tell you happy Mother's Day but you technically aren't a mom yet" and although on some levels it's true, this is my first I'm not due until July so I haven't "dealt" with a baby it still hurt my feelings. Like she may not be here yet but she's alive a well and I worry for her when she doesn't move for hours ! I have to watch what I do, what I eat, for her wellbeing, so I'm still watching out for her and I have sleepless nights, not with crying but with pains & feeling too hot etc. it may be nothing compared to what she is going through with her 1year old, but although my daughter isn't here yet I still have to look out for her best interest, and her comments make me feel like what I do or go through doesn't matter.