I'm on 11mo of TTC, I understand the feeling. I've been off BC for a year. Last time it took me three months after getting off BC.
Took me a year an a half. After awhile We stopped trying an decided not to stress over it an I ended up pregnant.
Don't give up! I've been trying also for awhile now and no luck but I'm not gonna stop
It took us a year. The last month we tried we used preseed lubricant and conceived. If you haven't tried it yet, you should give it a shot.