I'm afraid that when its my time to have my baby it's not going easy as my first one when I know I…

I'm afraid that when its my time to have my baby it's not going easy as my first one when I know I had to go to the hospital because I was so uncomfortable and they kept me because I was progressing and not to send me home. What if this time is not the same what if they send me home and don't know if I'm already dilating or not uhg I'm afraid I know this will be my second time but it feels like I'm going to start all over again. I still have 14 weeks to go though 😅 i need to stop overthinking 😰😰😰