So, my boyfriend ruins literally every special occasion. Every holiday, birthday, anniversary, and…
So, my boyfriend ruins literally every special occasion. Every holiday, birthday, anniversary, and party...he always is either in a horrible mood and starts a fight or does things that make me really upset. Also, since I've been on bed rest I've had to bitch for 3-5 business days for him to do anything around the house. The things I have cleaned up he's made messy again and not cleaned it up. I don't know what to do I thought I was having one baby to take care of not two...
Nina Wimer·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (23 нед.)
going through the same thing.
jana.bear·
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I'm sorry girl. Do you have any friends who could come help? A couple of my close girlfriends have all offered to come help get things ready.
Shaylee Simmons·
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@ninanicole2, frustrating as hell 😑
Shaylee Simmons·
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@jana.bear, thanks I appreciate it...and no not really everyone helped us move in but it's hard for them to help us clean up
emily·
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I'm sorry 😞 he sounds exactly like my father actually, in the way you describe him ruining every occasion. I know how absolutely frustrating that is. But as far as him complaining that he has to do everything around the house, fucking tough. You're carrying a baby which is hard work in itself. I was on bed rest until 30 weeks, it's not like you're sitting there having the time of your life while he does all the chores. There's probably a good reason you're on bed rest and you don't need any extra stress. He really needs to lighten up! I'm sorry, I wish there was something I could do
Shaylee Simmons·
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@emkasting, thank you so much! And it's just so hard for me because he walks me around everywhere and takes care of me because I can't do much...but like there is so much around the house that needs done I would love to do and I just can't 😓
emily·
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I totally understand! And he should too. You absolutely have to relax and make sure you don't over exert yourself. I know how much bed rest sucks. Find yourself a good series to binge watch, get comfy and try to stay positive :)