Y'all just a ponder here but should I be concerned that my husband isn't happy or excited about…

It takes guys a while sometimes, especially early on.

@kmunoz, but we already have 4 children so that's why I'm like what's the deal here cause we tried for a baby about 2 years ago and I miscarried we were devastated and we stopped trying and went on about life well later on I was told I was barren and couldn't have children anymore now I get pregnant and it stuck and he's not happy what the fudge you know

maybe in his mind you guys were done having kids...kinda like restarting after his mind had already reprogrammed. or it could be bringing up feelings from the miscarriage. honestly with a sensitive subject such as this is would just open all lines of communication and talk to him about ut

Oh! well then lol guys are weird. could be many things, but I'm sure the further you get and the more he gets used to the idea he'll be better. I wouldn't worry too much

I hope so @kmunoz and @addi-maesmama no he knew more kids would come later on but you know like you said dreading the miscarrying thing cause he said once I'm in my second trimester he may feel different

well just ride it out for now I suppose, It was really hard for SO and I in the beginning too (we lost our last) and he finally admitted he didn't wanna get too close too fast. so just give it time 😘 xoxo

my SO was happy when he knew there was a chance we could be having a baby again. when it was confirmed and reality hit him he got overwhelmed and said he couldn't do it. I gave him time and things worked themselves out. I can only imagine your husbands feelings with baby #5 on the way. it's alot to take in

@lucyyxoxo_, @addi-maesmama yeh 5 kids is a lot and I know that trust me but not all of them live with us 2 are my step children I love them like my own though but I'll give it time I just don't wanna get to the end and him be like this has got to end in adoption or something else I told him I needed to know if that what he was thinking before my 2nd trimester because if he came at me with something like that id leave my kids are more important