if zach and I ever broke up.. I have a stance on step parents...
if zach and I ever broke up.. I have a stance on step parents...
it'd be a transition BUT I wouldn't be mad and I wouldn't make it difficult for him. why?
because if she is good to our kids.. that's all I can ask for bc the only control I have over is our kids and not his love life.
No time to be petty and immature bc you're not over your baby daddy.. but if he's over you then you need to focus on your kids.
obviously every situation is unique in itself but put the bullshit aside and realize the important party is the child you brought into this world.
#itiswhatitis
Shannon 🌺💖·
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I wish I could like this a million times. This has been my life for the past 4 years.
emily·
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preach. it makes me so upset thinking about what my man had to go through as a child. His parents divorced when he was 8 or 9 and they did exactly what you should NOT do. They put him right in the damn middle of their very adult problem. They would both asked him "you love me more than your mom, right?" Or vice versa. They made him decide who he wanted to live with. I can't believe he had to deal with that as a child and it makes me hate both his parents for putting him through that. Of course we are never planning to split but IF that were to ever happen we know exactly what not to do.