So I'm all about the cry it out method especially when they are throwing a tantrums. But my SOs…

So I'm all about the cry it out method especially when they are throwing a tantrums. But my SOs family thinks it's okay to interfere and give hugs or kisses or my all time favorite pick them up and tell them it's okay and gives them food or something sweet or even a toy. I want to rip there head off. I get they have more experience and all but if it works in my house when your NOT there it will work where ever we are at. I don't need you making them think it's okay to act out just because you parent differently. It makes me want to punch them in the throat.