my fiance is self employed and these past couple months i feel like he is just getting stuck in…
my fiance is self employed and these past couple months i feel like he is just getting stuck in life. he was suppose to have a job after Christmas. his tags got suspended before Christmas and still hasn't even attempted to call to see how much he owes to get them back. now his license need to be renewed on top of that. all he does is stay up playing video games all night and sleep all day. as i am typing this he is asleep and has been asleep since 10 this morning. i love him to death and he does still feed me and provide a roof over my head but as of providing for this child he has only spent $20 on some onesies. ive sat down and talked to him and tried to motivate him but he gets very defensive and throws in my face what i dont do and how he works and is able to feed me and provide shelter. i just dont know how to even go about this anymore i understand his life has changed dramatically but he hasnt even left the house in forever except for this past week to one of my appointments which i had to beg him to do. im just stuck and have 30 days left till my due date and still have so much to do
Rebecca allen·
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I know how u feel on the self employed part and money my so got fired from a lawn company he worked for and he try but I know he can do better than whay he's doing I work mon-fri amd don't get paid so we can live where we're at its hard :(
lexi·
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yeah he wanted me to be a stay at home mom and by the time he quit his job i was to far along to work. it just sucks cause he has a guaranteed job so if he atleast tried to get his car on the road that was be awesome. but he is also struggling with making sure we keep a roof over our head so all of the money he is making is going to rent. its just a really shitty deck of cards we were dealt. i really dont think he is doing everything he could be doing and with such short time i am really panicking and not knowing what to do @mommawabbit
Rebecca allen·
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I'm there we have pay remt amd car payments and if we loose the car he deff won't get a job he had a sure fire job but his adopted dad has always been kinda iffy to him so he dosent know if this is for sure or just some bs :/ uhh so fustrating let's smack there heads together lmao @lexilulu
lexi·
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dude i am looking forward to being a mom but because of situations i have thought on many occasions about adoption. ive brought it up to him and he talks to me as if i just dont want the responsibility. but i keep telling myself it could be worse there are plenty of people who still make this shit work with way less @mommawabbit
Rebecca allen·
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exactly just apply for all the help u can get I have medicaid insurance waiting for food stamps gonna try to apply for section 8 to help with housing etc if we didn't have to pay 500 for rent for one room wed be okay but it sucks but we can do it god has a plan and where there's a will there's away and we have the will so well find the way girl we got this heads up :) @lexilulu